376 Theresa’s Heroine’s Journey

Today on the show, Jennifer Mulak interviews Theresa as she shares much of her life story through the lens of the Heroine’s Journey. Growing up as a “father’s daugher” and identifying with career over motherhood, Theresa assimilated with the masculine, finding masculine allies and often being the sole female member of various “boys clubs.” When her planned wedding was canceled, it woke her up to the choices she was making in life and how she had drifted far from the things she was truly passionate about. She talks about the struggles to leave the various patriarchal settings, the status and the financial success of that world, and how her journey to become a mother really rooted her in a reclaiming of the feminine and a return to wholeness. Do you have a story that relates to the Heroine’s Journey? Let us know how it resonates for you.

Happy New Moon! Here’s an essay from Cory Nakasue on Saturn’s Entrance into Aries.

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375 The Heroine’s Journey

I had a last minute change in plans due to a health emergency with my planned guest, but I took that as an opportunity to dig a little deeper into the Heroine’s Journey which Jennifer and I will be folding into our conversations on The Feminine Frequency (next week). Here’s a rough outline from The Heroine’s Journey Project. Let me know if you relate!

  1. HEROINE SEPARATES FROM THE FEMININE. The “feminine” is often a mother/mentor figure or a societally prescribed feminine/marginalized/outsider role.
  2. IDENTIFICATION WITH THE MASCULINE & GATHERING OF ALLIES. The heroine embraces a new way of life. This often involves choosing a path that is different than the heroine’s prescribed societal role, gearing up to “fight” an organization/role/group that is limiting the heroine’s life options, or entering some masculine/dominant-identity defined sphere.
  3. ROAD/TRIALS AND MEETING OGRES & DRAGONS. The heroine encounters trials and meets people who try to dissuade the heroine from pursuing their chosen path, or who try to destroy the heroine.
  4. EXPERIENCING THE BOON OF SUCCESS. The heroine overcomes the obstacles in their way. (This is typically where the hero’s journey ends.)
  5. HEROINE AWAKENS TO FEELINGS OF SPIRITUAL ARIDITY/DEATH. The heroine’s new way of life (attempting the masculine/dominant identity) is too limited. Their success in this new way of life is either temporary, illusory, shallow, or requires a betrayal of self over time.
  6. INITIATION & DESCENT TO THE GODDESS. The heroine faces a crisis of some sort in which the new way of life is insufficient, and the heroine falls into despair. All of the masculine/dominant-group strategies have failed them.
  7. HEROINE URGENTLY YEARNS TO RECONNECT WITH THE FEMININE. The heroine wants to, but is unable to return to their initial limited state/position.
  8. HEROINE HEALS THE MOTHER/DAUGHTER SPLIT. The heroine reclaims some of their initial values, skills, or attributes (or those of others like them) but now views these traits from a new perspective.
  9. HEROINE HEALS THE WOUNDED MASCULINE WITHIN. The heroine makes peace with the “masculine” approach to the world as it applies to them.
  10.  HEROINE INTEGRATES THE MASCULINE & FEMININE. In order to face the world/future with a new understanding of themselves and the world/life, the heroine integrates the “masculine” and “feminine” qualities/perspectives. This permits the heroine to see through binaries and to interact with a complex world that includes the heroine but is also larger than their personal lifetime or their geographical/cultural milieu.

We heard music from Cornelia Murr who will be joining me in the studio on June 2nd and playing Tubby’s on June 6th.

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374 Life Visioning with Marielena Ferrer

Happy Birthday Marielena! In honor of the Full Moon and Marielena’s Birthday, she offers us a Life Project workshop to reshape and connect with our vision for life by identifying what we like about ourselves, what we like doing, what we want our life to look like, and how to align ourselves with that vision.

Here’s your Full Moon report! AND, Marielena pulls a Kim Krans Archetype Card… The Vision! (We did not stage that.)

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373 Sovereignty

I had a last minute shift in plans for today’s show, so I took the opportunity to talk about the subject of Sovereignty starting with a history of cinco de mayo and then shared from Sharon Blackie’s, If Women Rose Rooted, where she shares about the Goddess Sovereignty.

As mentioned on the show, here’s Katherine Franke’s Instagram account if you want a primer on the legal issues that are being raised on the regular.

Here’s the info on the fundraiser for Woodstock Land Conservancy where Rebecca Martin will receive an award. Related to land and water conservancy, I read again from Sharon Blackie’s book about the story of the voices of the wells.

In other good news, Utopia Upstate from Lucia Cote utopia@utopiaupstate.com, a new communal work space and gallery has one remaining studio space available.

Hot tips…

Becca Piastrelli’s “Belonging” podcast is lovely.

Ana’s Callahan is teaching her Venus Day Class at The Bridge in Kingston.

And shout out to Rita Vanacore who was recognized yesterday for all she’s done for community.

We heard music from Jayla Kai, Rebecca Martin, Callie Mackenzie, and Jill Sobule.

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FACEBOOK * https://www.facebook.com/iwantwhatshehaspodcastI had a last minute shift in plans for today’s show, so I took the opportunity to talk about the subject of Sovereignty starting with a history of cinco de mayo and then shared from Sharon Blackie’s, If Women Rose Rooted, where she shares about the Goddess Sovereignty.

As mentioned on the show, here’s Katherine Franke’s Instagram account if you want a primer on the legal issues that are being raised on the regular.

Here’s the info on the fundraiser for Woodstock Land Conservancy where Rebecca Martin will receive an award. Related to land and water conservancy, I read again from Sharon Blackie’s book about the story of the voices of the wells.

In other good news, Utopia Upstate from Lucia Cote utopia@utopiaupstate.com, a new communal work space and gallery has one remaining studio space available.

Hot tips…

Becca Piastrelli’s “Belonging” podcast is lovely.

Ana’s Callahan is teaching her Venus Day Class at The Bridge in Kingston.

And shout out to Rita Vanacore who was recognized yesterday for all she’s done for community.

We heard music from Jayla Kai, Rebecca Martin, Callie Mackenzie, and Jill Sobule.

Today’s show was engineered by Ian Seda from Radiokingston.org.

Our show music is from Shana Falana!

Feel free to email me, say hello: she@iwantwhatshehas.org

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