Duncan Rich “Men’s Spaces and Modern Masculinity”

Today we are joined by Duncan Rich, a father, a husband, an artist, a facilitator of somatic men’s work, and a co-founder of MELD, a men’s wellness company. Duncan shares some personal background and what brought him to working with men and holding space for them. He provides insight into the importance of men’s spaces and having male voices in wellness spaces. Together we explore some of the deeper questions and challenges men face today – how to reach men who have been culturally shaped to disconnect from their emotions, what the manosphere is and how it’s being co-opted by a wounded masculine archetype, the challenges of defining masculinity, navigating aspirational masculinity, and reclaiming the Noble Father. 

You can learn more about Duncan and the work of MELD here: https://meld.community/ 

We referred to the writing of Elayne Kalilia, https://elaynekalila.substack.com/p/what-happens-when-the-world-is-fatherless 

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S.1 E.3 Dancing With Water – Perdita Finn “Mothers of Magic”

Perdita Finn is the co-founder, with her husband Clark Strand, of the feral fellowship The Way of the Rose, which inspired their book The Way of the Rose: The Radical Path of the Divine Feminine Hidden in the Rosary. They are currently at work on their next book together Circles Not Lines: Spiritual Community Beyond Patriarchy.  To find out more about her devotion to “ecology not theology” visit wayoftherose.org

In addition to extensive study with Zen masters, priests, spirit workers, and healers, she apprenticed with the psychic Susan Saxman, with whom she wrote The Reluctant Psychic. Perdita Finn now teaches popular workshops on Getting to Know the Dead. Participants are empowered to activate the miracles in their own lives with the help of their ancestors and recover their own intuitive magic. Her book Take Back the Magic: Conversations with the Unseen World is an intimate journey through her recovery of these lost ways. She speaks widely on how to collaborate with those on the other side, on the urgent necessity of a new romantic animism, and on the sobriety that emerges when we claim the long story of our souls. Her next book is Mothers of Magic: Summoning the Wisdom of Our Ancestors, to be released on May 5th, 2026.

Perdita begins by talking about the idea of redefining Mothering beyond gender, something that feels so important in today’s world where Mothering has been sidelined by the patriarchy. She offers some strong guidance to men about the role of Grandmothers which helps us move towards collective Mothering. So much of Perdita’s work and book centers on a calling upon the dead. As such we get to hear how this connects with Mothering, how to speak with the dead, and viewing our worries or fretting as an act of prayer calling out for help from the unseen. 

You can connect with all of Perdita’s work at https://takebackthemagic.com/

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S. 1 E. 2 Dancing with Water with Dr. Catherine Svehla

Today on the show we are in conversation with Catherine Svehla, PhD, an independent scholar, storyteller, and mentor in the mythic life. She works with artists on their projects and process, and guides people through work/life transitions by connecting them with their inner wisdom. She is the creator of the Myth Matters podcast (part of the Joseph Campbell Foundation’s MythMaker℠ Podcast Network) and also shares the transformative power of myths and fairytales through story-based workshops and events. Catherine holds a PhD in mythology and depth psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute and has been working the liminal fields of myth, creativity, and consciousness for 30 years. Learn more at mythicmojo.com

Today we explore “the feminine” archetype beginning with Dr. Svehla’s understanding of Jung’s “feminine” and why she advises finding different methods of achieving our shared goal of shifting the power dynamic of the patriarchy. We learn about the philosophy of post Jungian Feminists who offer better working models for us and why Catherine believes it’s important to avoid the Essentialist perspective of fixed gender qualities. So how does gender play a role in all of this? Let us know your thoughts in this ongoing collaborative conversation. 

Dr. Svehla will be in the Hudson Valley next week as a part of Kelli Scar’s Lesser Mysteries happenings.  She will be holding a talk about “The Problem of the Return” on April 29th, 2026 at the Art Society of Kingston.  

Here’s our previous conversation with Dr. Svehla from September 2025. 

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S.1 E.1 Dancing with Water with Lorís Simón Salum

Lorís Simón Salum is a Jungian psychotherapist whose work lives at the intersection of psyche, body, and symbol. Based in Houston, she works with dreams, sandtray, and LENS neurofeedback. Her path is deeply influenced by the Marion Woodman tradition, and she is currently a training candidate at the C.G. Jung Institute in Zürich. Alongside her clinical work, she is developing a documentary project on the relationship between symbol and embodied transformation.

In 2013 she released her documentary film Ensoulment, A Diverse Analysis of the Feminine in Western Culture, portraying a road to self discovery through the tangles of Jungian theory, cultural narratives and personal intuition. An internationally award-winning film that screened across multiple countries and numerous cities. 

Our conversation weaves through topics on “the feminine,” how gender is related to and separate from feminine and masculine embodiment, the role women play in patriarchy and moving beyond it, the inner lives of men, and finding balance amongst it all.

You can learn more about Lorís’s work at lorissimon.com, and follow her on Instagram.

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Introducing Dancing With Water

Welcome to Dancing With Water, conversations about embodying the feminine. Where we explore surrendering to natural rhythms, listening within, moving in harmony with others, and what’s revealed in the darkness. We’re your hosts, Theresa Lyn Widmann, sound practitioner, lifestyle architect and mother, and Jennifer Mulak, herbalist, earth steward, energy practitioner, and founder of Cosmic Mother.

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Introducing Dancing With Water

Welcome to Dancing With Water, conversations about embodying the feminine. Where we explore surrendering to natural rhythms, listening within, moving in harmony with others, and what’s revealed in the darkness. We’re your hosts, Theresa Lyn Widmann, sound practitioner, lifestyle architect and mother, and Jennifer Mulak, herbalist, earth steward, energy practitioner, and founder of Cosmic Mother.

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Introducing Dancing With Water

Welcome to Dancing With Water, conversations about embodying the feminine. Where we explore surrendering to natural rhythms, listening within, moving in harmony with others, and what’s revealed in the darkness. We’re your hosts, Theresa Lyn Widmann, sound practitioner, lifestyle architect and mother, and Jennifer Mulak, herbalist, earth steward, energy practitioner, and founder of Cosmic Mother.

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415 Shana Falana and The Goddess

It’s my last radio show, and I am overjoyed and grateful that I get to spend it the way it began, with my friend and show co-founder Shana Falana.  To formally reintroduce you, she is a songwriter, performer, and community architect originally from San Francisco, based in the Hudson Valley since 2008. For over 25 years, Shana has merged music and public service—bringing 12-step meetings into jails and institutions throughout Ulster County, helping coordinate the early years of O+ Festival, and co-founding the I Want What SHE Has radio show on Radio Kingston.

She is the founder and creative force behind The Goddess Party, a performance collective uplifting women through music, ritual, and radical joy, with sold-out shows at Opus 40, Old Dutch Church, and Basilica Hudson.

Her artistic and social practice centers on amplifying women in their perimenopausal and menopausal years, increasing the visibility of aging women on stage and reshaping cultural narratives about power, beauty, and relevance after fifty. She is the creator and showrunner of a scripted television series inspired by The Goddess Party, expanding its story from live performance into narrative television.

Shana is someone who as a friend I’ve witnessed move through the life cycle of different projects and life experiences with apparent ease. I’m someone who struggles to let go and perhaps holds on a bit too long, but she talks about what endings are like for her and how she navigates them.  We get to hear about the beginning and evolution of The Goddess Party, the challenges, highlights, and what’s to come. As much of her current work relates to thriving in an older woman’s body, Shana shares her experience of navigating illness and perimenopause and offers many resources that have supported her along the way, always following her intuition.

Here are the books Shana mentioned – Wise Power, Hagitude, Mother Hunger

And the doctor she recommended.

You can find her here ->> instagram / spotify / apple music /

And stay tuned to The Goddess Party’s Instagram account for more details about the upcoming March 27th benefit concert they are participating in at Levon Helm Studios.

My previous show on The Goddess Party can be found here!

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414 Bryn Roshong “Solid Ground Farm and Food Access”

Today’s guest on The Feminine Frequency is Bryn Roshong. She lives on her family’s farm in Lomontville with her husband, Wes Hannah, and two kids.  She has spent the last 15 years working in and up against the food system as a farmer, farmer policy advocate, and in industrial-scale food manufacturing.  She is co-owner with Wes of Solid Ground Farm, a four-season diversified organic veggie farm in Marbletown, stewarding 25 acres and employing 6 full-time farm staff.  At the farm, she serves in roles outside the fields, supporting the farm’s bookkeeping, mission, and communications.  Since 2021, after eight years working in operations at a former food processing facility called The Farm Bridge, Bryn has been working with a great team at Community Food Works, building community-focused food processing infrastructure in Kingston to strengthen the local agricultural economy and make local food accessible to as many community members as possible.  She enjoys hanging out with her family at home and in the woods, and volunteering with a few local organizations: the Kingston farmers market board, Marbletown’s Community Preservation Advisory Board, advisory committee for Growing Homes, and political advocacy working group of the HV Young Farmers Coalition.

We get to hear about how Bryn (and Wes) went from labor organizing to farm working to running their own farm supported by a team of dedicated farmers. We learn about the work Bryn has done and is doing to create a more self sustaining food system in the Hudson Valley which includes a deeper understanding of how food banks and food pantries work. I had no idea! Bryn is also well versed in the inherent racism in the farming industry and sheds light on how the Federal Government’s efforts to reverse DEI has impacted beneficial food programs that were bringing more equality to farming and food access. How does she do it all while also being a mom to two young children? She’s starting to find ways to receive help despite the personal challenges and perspectives that created the “I can and must do it all” attitude. Who else can relate??? (We do.) More on that, but for now, we hope you enjoy our conversation with Bryn.

You can learn more about the Farm and their CSA program here.

Here’s your New Moon Solar Eclipse astrology. Happy Year of the Fire Horse!

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413 “Miracles and Love” with Marielena Ferrer

It’s my last on air show with Marielena Ferrer! We started this monthly conversation about Spirituality and Politics, the art of living and the art of living together, nearly 5 years ago in April 2021. It’s been a wonderful and expansive exploration of subjects that are near and dear to my heart and my sense of curiosity. We chose to end our run with a conversation about Miracles. We’d given ourselves homework to explore A Course in Miracles, but I had a hard time digesting it, even Marianne Williamson’s interpretation of it. But that didn’t stop us for working through some of the meaning of the text and overall, what miracles are and how they relate to the art of living.

Related to the conversation is the concept of Love which you might say is the art of living together. Perhaps from a scientific perspective, it is the glue that holds us together. We’ll be continuing our conversation at Unison Arts beginning on March 6, 2026 and in the podcast once my radio show sunsets. Stay tuned for more!

Some resources:

Perceiving Reality through Kabbalah.

Heart Coherence and the Vibration of Love from Annie Bond

Opening the Akashic Records of agape by Kat Hunt.

Follow Me by Aly-Us

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